Do your good —

without burning out

Don’t let exhaustion and overwhelm defeat the good you want to make in the world.

Your resistance matters – embrace aliveness rather than exhaustion

Build a calm, resistant organization and get enough rest for yourself

Struggling Team?

Get 5 easy-to-implement team building activities that inspire calm, focus and clear communication.

Are you exhausted?

Receive a 30-day calendar and guide to the seven types of rest and inspiration to make time for them.

‘I sought out coaching because I was looking to look deeper at the way I function as my role as a pastor. In the course of our work together, I have a better awareness of where my strengths lie and how to structure my time to take better advantage of them. I have found a better balance between my work and personal life with higher quality in both.”

Rev. Marraine Kettell

Pastor and Hospice Chaplain

A calm, restful life is possible – even in the midst of chaos

Change makers can do good and get enough rest with individual and group coaching

Reasons people engage Nicole for burnout recovery coaching:

Job transitions or career pivots
Recovering from a toxic work environment
Sabbatical planning and re-entering work
You’re heading an organization that is facing a busy season or big change
Exhaustion and overwhelm become too much
Starting a new job or ministry
Weary from caring for others (parenting, aging elders, etc.)

Have you been waiting for a “slower” season to get the rest you need?

But, the slower season never really comes.

Individual and group coaching will help you create a slower, more joy-filled life that you don’t need to escape from.
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Individual Coaching

6- or 12-session coaching packages for:

• Recovering from a toxic work environment

• Planning and taking a sabbatical

• Reeling from a job loss or making a career pivot

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Calm Calendar Club

Simple planning tools if you:

• You have ADHD or neurodivergence

• Have brain fog or are just exhuasted

• Want a supportive community, no shame

You’re Not Dropping Too Many Balls

You’re Carrying Too Many

Let the Calm Calendar Club help you set a few of them down.

Humane planning tools for Gen X and elder Millennial women navigating work, family, aging parents, shifting hormones — or anyone with an out-of-control calendar and a brain that doesn’t fit typical planning systems. This planning system honors your nervous system, provides structure without hustle and accountability without grind culture.

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Brilliant, compassionate women like you aren’t failing. You’re overloaded: carrying careers, caregiving, households, community leadership — and blaming yourself when something slipped.

The Calm Calendar Club is not bro-marketed frameworks, rigid time blocking nor color-coded shame spirals.

We have tools + a supportive community that respects:
  • fluctuating energy
  • cognitive shifts
  • executive dysfunction
  • and the reality of being the emotional air-traffic controller of your household

“Our organization had done a long visioning process after a series of budget and staff cuts, but didn’t know exactly how to use the great feedback we had collected. Nicole’s strategic work helped us build a new staff team grounded in our core values and set the groundwork for who we have become and are becoming. I am grateful for the gentle and wise ways in which she challenged me as a leader and our organization as a whole.”

Rev. Dr. Chad Abbott

Conference Minister, Indiana-Kentucky Conference UCC

Training and Team building

Prevent burnout while still getting work done.

Custom Group Coaching

Support your team’s growth without losing compassion.

Mindful Time Management

Make the Calm Calendar Club a company benefit.

Hi, I’m Nicole

I believe that you can thrive in the midst of even chaotic change.

I know you feel exhausted, unfocused and frazzled. Pushing the big rock of change up the hill may feel like it’s just too much. You may want to give up.

I’ve been there. I worked for the declining institutional church for more than a decade. They said they wanted change and hired me because I liked to create it. Then when they started to get the change, conflict arose and I was frequently frozen out. Absorbing all the backlash from the resistance nearly burned me out.

Sticking to my spiritual practices like yoga and meditation, having the support of valued colleagues, and regularly stepping away for values-based planning enabled me to thrive, not just survive moments of incredible change and loss.

Nicole a fat, white-bodied fat woman swings joyously on a swing in the park.

In 2018, after several weeks of meditating on my next steps, I decided these healing tools were too good to keep to myself. I started this burnout recovery and prevention community so I could pass them along to you.

Want to get to know me better? Schedule a free coffee chat.

We are a Radical Rest movement

Burnout recovery with a community that’s ending hustle and grind culture

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Find Nicole Havelka burnout recovery coach on Linkedin.

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Prefer to ask a quick question?

Email me and I promise to get back to you ASAP. I really do read my email personally.

Exhausted? Overwhelmed?

Try coaching without the long-term committment. Get a planning, guided rest or share my wisdom session by hopping right on my calendar now.