by Nicole Havelka | Oct 6, 2020 | Advent & Christmas, Community, Creativity, Mindfulness, Organizations, Ritual, Social Justice
“It’s Not About You.” If Dr. Haldeman was giving you a “talk” that included this phrase, you were not being your best self. Seminary classmates and I grew accustomed to hearing these words from my worship professor and advisor, Dr. Scott Haldeman, while I was in the...
by Nicole Havelka | May 28, 2020 | Community, Creativity, Healing, Mindfulness, Ritual
When I was in seminary (a.k.a. graduate school for pastors), one of my professors would fairly regularly give one of us the “it’s-not-about-you” speech when we were in times of distress (i.e. self-created drama). He would remind you firmly, directly, kindly that...
by Nicole Havelka | May 20, 2020 | Change Leadership, Community, Creativity, Mindfulness, Organizations, Ritual
Pandemic time bears a striking resemblance to airport time. I have long theorized that time spent in airports and airplanes exists in some strange liminal space — not really here nor there. If I spent enough time in an airport waiting for delayed or cancelled flights...
by Nicole Havelka | Apr 30, 2020 | Community, Mindfulness, Self Care
Even before the coronavirus and the advent of social distancing, I took walks almost daily. As someone who lives in about 700-square feet and works in that same space, I knew the importance of getting outside and moving to help the blood and ideas flow during the work...
by Nicole Havelka | Apr 22, 2020 | Uncategorized
Starting a new spiritual practice can feel upside down. These are practices that are supposed to ground you, focus you, center you. Ironically, the beginning of a new practice (or starting anything, really) does not feel that way. Starting meditation, yoga, or prayer...
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